Cuckholding: A Fetish of Submission, Dominance and Race-play

TheNotionBlog
2 min readApr 29, 2023

Cuckolding is a multifaceted fetish that encompasses various power dynamics, including submission, dominance, humiliation, and racial elements. It is an umbrella term that denotes a range of experiences and fantasies involving the interaction of partners from different racial backgrounds. In this particular dynamic, a white woman may be perceived as submissive to a black man, who is considered dominant. The white man involved may experience both submissive and dominant feelings within himself.

The white female is submissiveness in the eyes of the black male. The black male is dominant in the eyes of the white women. The white male is both submissiveness and dominant in the eyes of himself.

As the “cuckold,” he may derive pleasure from observing his partner engaging in intimate acts with the black man, relishing in his role as “The Watcher.” Conversely, the white man may also adopt a more dominant position, viewing himself as “The Director” who exercises control over the interactions between the white woman and black man. This aspect of the fetish can be particularly arousing for him.

The racial component, though not always explicitly acknowledged or presented in a derogatory manner, may have historical ties to the power dynamics that existed between slave owners and enslaved individuals. For example, slave owner would breed men and women during slavery.

Slave breeding was the practice in slave states of the United States of slave owners to systematically force the reproduction of slaves to increase their profits.

Even the term “breeding”, now gentrified, has found its way into the cuckholding fetish.

This play on race is then gentrified sexually as a power dynamic for the white male which gives the cuckolding fetish an extra layer of sexual stimulation for him.

By incorporating elements of race into the cuckolding experience, the white man may find an additional layer of eroticism, as the power dynamics are repurposed within a consensual, intimate context.

This fetish can even lead deeper in narrowing down the cuck’s political and social views. In Jerry Falwell Jr, article, Why conservative men are more likely to fantasize about sharing their wives, Falwell sees a a connection in Heterosexual males pollical views and cuckholding:

A majority of heterosexual men (52 percent) said they had fantasized about watching their partner have sex with someone else. Heterosexual men who identified as Republican were the most likely to report having had a cuckolding fantasy at some point — and they fantasized about it more often than Democrats.

All of these things, from sexual fetishes, submissiveness, dominance, gender and race, though all separate from one another, can identify and explain some of our most taboo pleasure when viewed together.

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